How partnernship leads to lifelong connections

I remember sitting on a kitchen floor with several of my fellow ministry school seniors, leaning against cabinets and having a candid, late-night conversation about the future. Graduation was just around the corner, and with it came the sobering reality that we were all heading in different directions—different cities, ministries, and callings. We felt the bittersweet tension of excitement for what was ahead and grief at the thought of leaving the closeness we’d built.

In the middle of our conversation, one of the seniors shared something his mentor had told him:

“If you want to fall in love with each other for a lifetime, start supporting each other financially.”

Knowing that this mentor had a long history in ministry and partnership development himself, I believed it– but years later, I’ve seen its truth play out for myself.

Jesus said, “Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:21) Our hearts follow our money. It’s not just that we give to what we love; it’s that giving itself draws our hearts in. Financial partnership is one of the most tangible, practical ways we can express love, fellowship, and long-term commitment.

After we graduated, some of us began raising support as full-time missionaries. I chose to partner financially with a couple of my classmates, and a couple of them chose to partner with me. Over time, it became a thread that helped us stay connected, even as the currents of life pulled us to different cities and nations.

I look forward to their updates, celebrate their testimonies, and intercede for their challenges. I don’t just read about what they’re doing—I feel part of it. Their fruit feels like our fruit. Their breakthrough feels like my breakthrough. And I know they feel the same about me.

It’s one of the most beautiful, unexpected gifts of partnership development: it knits hearts together in a lasting, Kingdom way.

As you develop your own team of partners, remember that the partnership relationship is not about a monetary transaction; it’s about participating in each other’s callings and ministries. It’s about being an integral part of what God is doing in and through one another. You’re not just asking for financial support; you are inviting others into a partnership of eternal significance. Your supporters are not merely donors; they are co-laborers in the gospel, invested in your mission and ministry.

So don't be afraid to ask. Don't be afraid to invite. You’re not only building your support team. You’re building relationships that can last a lifetime and echo into eternity.